Hello Friend(s),
Please don't consider this as an advice. I hate to give and accept advices :P. It's just a little thought of mine, when one of my friends said "this" to me.
It's really good that you try to please everyone...
An option for not to displease someone or anyone, or for not to fail in pleasing someone, would be to 'not forget' anyone...
When you try to please someone, you might be forgetting 'another' someone, hence you displease that 'another' someone...
If you don't forget 'that' someone, you'll definitely please that person...
So, if you apply the 'remember' patch to everyone close to you, you will fix the 'displease' vulnerability ;-)
PS: If you try to be yourself, and try to 'remember' everyone, you don't need to explicitly please anyone, you will please everyone implicitly :P
Pleasing everyone 'explicitly' is pretty impossible, because life is too short to "please" everyone "that way" :)
Love,
Rangith ;-)
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Thoughts Unlimited
Most of the time it's false friendship that you find around yourself or you discover around you. You seldom notice true friendship.
True friendship will not be as beautiful and intoxicating as false friendships. So you seldom appreciate true friendships.
However, there will be a time, when you're in real need, that you understand the false friendships, and understand they are false, and you notice the true friendships and know that they are the gem of friendships.
You will think, why you did not notice them for so long, why they are more beautiful than the false friendship, why they still waited for you, without moving away, to discover them.
That's the magic of true friendship, the purity and honesty of true friendship...
.... and it's today I discovered a few true friendships and a few false friendships....
Tailpiece:- My new year resolution: I would be 'more' careful, when I choose a friend... or more careful when I make friendship. I really don't want Junkies!
True friendship will not be as beautiful and intoxicating as false friendships. So you seldom appreciate true friendships.
However, there will be a time, when you're in real need, that you understand the false friendships, and understand they are false, and you notice the true friendships and know that they are the gem of friendships.
You will think, why you did not notice them for so long, why they are more beautiful than the false friendship, why they still waited for you, without moving away, to discover them.
That's the magic of true friendship, the purity and honesty of true friendship...
.... and it's today I discovered a few true friendships and a few false friendships....
Tailpiece:- My new year resolution: I would be 'more' careful, when I choose a friend... or more careful when I make friendship. I really don't want Junkies!
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Jab We Met!
Caution: No need to read this ;) ... I'm just blabbering my mind out!
Jab We Met! - It's one movie that'll put a smile on my face. Don't know why, it's not my favorite movie, but it's always fun || nice watching !!!!!
Anhhh, the other day I was listening to a song...which one was that??? Oh ho... I guess there was a short circuit in my brain... the fuse there must have blown out! Ahhh, it was "Dekha hai pehli bar...saajan ke aakhome pyaar" ... that too has the same effect ... ;-) 'put a smile'. Ahhhh.. another one would be "Munbe Vaa En Anbee Vaa"....
Okay, back to "Jab We Met", my life is also like Adithya's ... most of the time - life is on the EDGE ... waiting for Geeth to come and put it back on TRACK :-)....
And, it's "Yeh Isqh Hayee" now...the song oozes energy... :-).... Oops, this is the problem with me, will start talking about something and will end up with something else ... as if I don't have time with me ;-)
Okay, okay, stop eating "bhav" ...... Oh no no, it's my favorite song of 2007! ... Let me write a few lines about that... it's none other than ... "Tum Se Hi" ... nice lyrics ... "Raste miljate hai! Manzile miljati hai! Tumse hi tumse hi!" ... "Wah wah wah"....
See, I was about to stop and I just started all over again :D ... This time, I'm stopping! ...
Jab We Met! - It's one movie that'll put a smile on my face. Don't know why, it's not my favorite movie, but it's always fun || nice watching !!!!!
Anhhh, the other day I was listening to a song...which one was that??? Oh ho... I guess there was a short circuit in my brain... the fuse there must have blown out! Ahhh, it was "Dekha hai pehli bar...saajan ke aakhome pyaar" ... that too has the same effect ... ;-) 'put a smile'. Ahhhh.. another one would be "Munbe Vaa En Anbee Vaa"....
Okay, back to "Jab We Met", my life is also like Adithya's ... most of the time - life is on the EDGE ... waiting for Geeth to come and put it back on TRACK :-)....
And, it's "Yeh Isqh Hayee" now...the song oozes energy... :-).... Oops, this is the problem with me, will start talking about something and will end up with something else ... as if I don't have time with me ;-)
Okay, okay, stop eating "bhav" ...... Oh no no, it's my favorite song of 2007! ... Let me write a few lines about that... it's none other than ... "Tum Se Hi" ... nice lyrics ... "Raste miljate hai! Manzile miljati hai! Tumse hi tumse hi!" ... "Wah wah wah"....
See, I was about to stop and I just started all over again :D ... This time, I'm stopping! ...
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
No!
Hello all,
No more SAD SAD blogs ....
From now onwards it's only Happy Happy blogs :-) ....
However, I'm not just gonna leave SAD SAD blogs, they will appear here, only if they have any relevance!
No more SAD SAD blogs ....
From now onwards it's only Happy Happy blogs :-) ....
However, I'm not just gonna leave SAD SAD blogs, they will appear here, only if they have any relevance!
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Compound Interest!
Okay! Don't worry. This blog is not about banking or interest rates or anything related to that.
It's only a few hours before I realized that sorrows are like compound interest. The effect of total number of sorrows that you have is equal to the compound interest(sorrows). If a new entry for 'sorrow' comes, it won't simply get added to the previous one. It is always calculated based on the amount of sorrow already available in your mind, like compound interest, and will be stored in your mind.
I already had heaps to worry and this last one multiplied with the previous amount of sorrow and :'( and :'(.... it's more than I cannot bear with.... and I feel like screaming..... it's anger mixed with pity plus sorrow, actually.
Well, all these are simple challenges to make you better, to keep yourself always sharpened! (back to all those old ruddy words) ;)
It's only a few hours before I realized that sorrows are like compound interest. The effect of total number of sorrows that you have is equal to the compound interest(sorrows). If a new entry for 'sorrow' comes, it won't simply get added to the previous one. It is always calculated based on the amount of sorrow already available in your mind, like compound interest, and will be stored in your mind.
I already had heaps to worry and this last one multiplied with the previous amount of sorrow and :'( and :'(.... it's more than I cannot bear with.... and I feel like screaming..... it's anger mixed with pity plus sorrow, actually.
Well, all these are simple challenges to make you better, to keep yourself always sharpened! (back to all those old ruddy words) ;)
Thursday, June 5, 2008
A tribute to CV ;)
This blog proudly presents Mr. CV. One of my close friends, my photography and style GURU!
CV please do not rage at me :). I got a chance to take a few good photos of CV, on our recent trip to Ponmudi. So, I thought, I should share it with you all.





CV please do not rage at me :). I got a chance to take a few good photos of CV, on our recent trip to Ponmudi. So, I thought, I should share it with you all.
Copyright © 2008 Rangith Ramachandran
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Help!
Would you mind helping me?... ????... Not sure, isn't it?
That's the answer I got most of the time, when asked for a help or favor with most of my 'so called' friends at work or in one word my 'colleagues'.
Have I ever said 'no' to them, when they asked for a help or favor? No, never! That's what it seems, I would have at least tried to help them out!
****, I hate my present work only because of this, especially my new team. Gone are those days, when I worked with my previous team- MasterMinds. How loving and caring were they! I could always ask for a shift change with Gopi, Anusha, Neetha, PriyaT and Indu.
Gosh!!! over here, it stinks and every time I'll just have to ask 'one person', who'll always refuse to do a favor! (no other choice, my ******* fortune, only she'll be the available team mate). Can she just look back and remember how many times I have helped her?
Let it be next time, I'm just gonna say a BIG 'Nooooooooooooo' if she comes and asks me - Rangi, can you do me a favor! (I would say, **** off, of course in my mind :D)
That's the answer I got most of the time, when asked for a help or favor with most of my 'so called' friends at work or in one word my 'colleagues'.
Have I ever said 'no' to them, when they asked for a help or favor? No, never! That's what it seems, I would have at least tried to help them out!
****, I hate my present work only because of this, especially my new team. Gone are those days, when I worked with my previous team- MasterMinds. How loving and caring were they! I could always ask for a shift change with Gopi, Anusha, Neetha, PriyaT and Indu.
Gosh!!! over here, it stinks and every time I'll just have to ask 'one person', who'll always refuse to do a favor! (no other choice, my ******* fortune, only she'll be the available team mate). Can she just look back and remember how many times I have helped her?
Let it be next time, I'm just gonna say a BIG 'Nooooooooooooo' if she comes and asks me - Rangi, can you do me a favor! (I would say, **** off, of course in my mind :D)
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